Sunday, September 26, 2021

Day 153

 Man’s search for meaning- 11

I got a video clip on yesterday, where in a son is taking care of his mother,  92 years  old, suffering from dementia.

He stated that she loses memory at times.... so, the conversation shown went as follows… she asked him who he is to which he replied that he is her son.

·   Then she asked whether she has any other children ...to which he replied she has 6 children.... then she asked about her husband... to which he replied that his father died 20 years ago........ so, she asked how did he die. To which he added.... due to heart attack…then she started sobbing..

·       when he added that she had a wonderful married life of 49 years with 6 lovely children too.. so she thanked him for taking care of her now… for which he replied as to how she had brought up 6 children so well…

·        then he added that he had put a video of theirs on the net and some 2 million people have seen it and are praying for her… she was delighted/touched to hear that and added that children should take care of their parents and she wished her son /children and others well in their life…

What a touching video indeed… she was seen sipping tea or coffee or juice and taking some snacks…

See the plight of a person, not able to remember anything from her life. marriage, husband, children, death of husband, names…. Nothing at all… yet alive and cheerful at times….

The mere thought of such a life makes one fearful and threatened…all that we take for granted …. Health, memory, relations, friends, wife/husband, family, children all indeed which are all linked with the mind… memory… once that fails to function… everything is alike… a shadow… no son, no husband. no family… No …nothing at all…like a new born child… just blank…. Mere blankness…

So, what a beautiful instrument the God has gifted to us…

·       with good health, working organs of perception, actions, mind, intellect, memory and even ego… to know who we are…. even in this mundane world.

·       How beautiful an instrument … all that ceases when the mind becomes dysfunctional….

·       Are we sufficiently conscious of these blessings… are we grateful to the creator first and parents next… and all others at a large, who make this living possible…?

These are worth thinking.. and also the meaning of this existence… what is it really?

Be happy. Be safe.

 

 8 AM

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